What does it take to be the king of something? Do you have to be mean? Do you have to be good looking? Do you have to have certain dominance over all that exists? No...I think you just have to say that your a king or for the lady blog readers a queen. The whole point of this blog is to make men and women aware of how important they are and how valued their lives are to everyone they are loved by.

If you know anything about me you know that I am Oprah's number one fan and I love and watch every show every night. Last nights show was about what would you do if you saw someone being bullied or abused or even discriminated against. The one topic that stood out the most with me was when a woman was being abused by her husband physically and verbally. I know they where just actors but there are real people out there who are going through what they where, and the victims are getting younger and younger everyday.

If there is any one out there who is in a similar relationship as the two on the show, I want you to know you don’t have to stay in it. There are hundreds of ways for you to get out of a situation as that one. My favorite is realizing that you’re a queen and you should be treated like one or that you’re a king and you should act like one. Women aren’t the only people who go through bad relationships men do to but we won’t say anything because it makes us feel low, I’d rather fell low than be six feet below. Stand up and say something be the King and Queen you where made to be.

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